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I'm a story whore named Valentina who lives in Toronto. I'm 21 years old and trying to redefine what it means to be a lady. I identify as a straight black cis woman who wrestles with her mental health. I'm in too many fandoms to name, just explore and you'll see. And hopefully one day I'll be able to turn my infatuation with stories into a living.
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While I would need 2 years of your life to properly explain all my fandoms I can list which umbrellas I fall under; fashion | animanga | cartoons | comic books | fiction books | western shows | music | kpop |
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28.Jul.14 7 hours ago

http://sourcedumal.tumblr.com/post/93099146011/takeontheworldwithfitness-sourcedumal-its-ok

takeontheworldwithfitness:

sourcedumal:

Its ok to be a victim.

I am really tired of this alpha mentality of “stop being a victim” bullshit we crank out.

It. Is. Absofuckinlutely OKAY TO BE A VICTIM

Especially in a system that not only rewards abusers, but often put those abusers…

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28.Jul.14 7 hours ago

sourcedumal:

I am against the hate on the word victim, mainly because we’ve gotten so damn adamant about being more palatable to abusers.

Yeah I said it.

All this ‘you need to toughen up,’ ‘well you LET it happen to you.’ ‘why didn’t you fight back?’ bullshit is a part of it.

Always telling the victim to shut up unless they are being the incredible hulk about their story.

But never ever the focus on the perpetrator who is victimizing people.

Cus we’d rather do cognitive dissonance…

28.Jul.14 7 hours ago

lordbape:

"it’s our job to teach the ignorant"

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(via melongorl)

28.Jul.14 7 hours ago

foulmilk:

but it’s like
100% girls r hot
an 23% boys r hot

(via magicbuffet)

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